Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Twists Again?

Man, I am once again thinking of putting some twists in my hair - or should I say putting my hair in twists. I think the former sounds like I would be addign hair and I am not. LOL

I think it's time for me to "twist it up" for a while - even if it's just for a few days. I just don't feel like doing it though. LOL. Maybe I could start doing it Friday night and be done by Saturday night when I get ready to go to church. I think I'll have to go back and check out my twisted styles from way back when it used to take me a whole night and just get bussy. both of my girls have their hair in twists and I think it's time for me to stop being lazy and get it done.

I just wish it didn't take so long. I got my daughter's hair done in not time, but when it comes to my hair it seems like it takes forever. I want small twists too. Oh well. I guess there's nothing to it but to do it. Wish I could start tonight, but with my little get-a-way on the horizon, I just don't have the time.

Yeah, I think I'll put it up in twists this weekend. My hair needs a rest. It would be nice if I could henna then twist, but I think that's pushing it. I just need to make sure that I can keep the twists in for more than 3 days! That is my problem now days. I just can't keep the twists in. Maybe if it takes me forever to do them I wont be so eager to take them out. maybe I should do some small twists and challenge myself to keep them in. I know I can do it - I've done it before. We'll see. I'll post pics when I finish twisting.

Hair Envy

Yeah, I know it's been a long time since I've posted. It's a "tag-team" combo of laziness and being busy. It also doesn't help that I really have to use my brain sometimes to come up with interesting things to write about either. LOL

Today I just want to talk about hair envy. Don't try to act like you don't know what I'm talking about. We've all been there before. But here I'm not just talking about the hair envy where it's like, "oh man, I wish I had her hair", and things keep moving. I'm talking about real hair envy.

I am a member of a number of hair boards/sites. I do a lot of lurking and some posting - not as much posting as I used to. Lately I have been noticing a lot of hair envy - and not the good kind. I'm seeing sisters hate on other sisters simply for achieving length. What kind of mess is that? One discussion really sticks out in my mind: there was a discussion about one sister who had very long 4a hair and someone commented that "all that hair is unnecessary".

Really? Why? Because you can't achieve it? If she wants super long hair, then let it be. Why make that comment? It's obvious the young lady takes time to take care of her hair to achieve such length, so maybe "all that hair" is necessary for her. What is your point to make such a comment? Then for someone else to chime in and agree - it was just too much. I saw some similar actions on another hair board I visited the same day.

I mean, can somebody please shed some light on what is happening here? Is there that much hatery in the hair world that we have to go out like that? I mean, she has no chemicals in her hair - so no one can say - oh she's permed. Folks wanted to see a true natural 4a with hair longer than APL and here she is and still she gets no love because her hair is long and 100% hers - grown out of her scalp. Now if the hair had been a weave there would have been something said about that. She even got talked about because she uses heat on her hair - like blow dried & flat ironed once a month - hey that's her routine. Nobody said you have to do it. She is just sharing what works for her.

Why do we feel it necessary to be so judging about people? I mean, I'm not going to lie, I want her hair, ok? LOL Hell yes I want long, natural hair down my back, but if I can't achieve it will I go out and dis somebody who has it? Hell no. What's wrong with people? Instead of criticising and obviously hating - why don't you just do some research and get your hair game up!!!!

I'm just saying.......and because this is my blog, I can.